i'm confused...

i'm confused.

i always have had a problem of "letting go" of things.

but this is not right.

 i just can't decide.

if you were standing in my family room right this very minute,

in one quick turn of your head,

you can see this...

the girls' halloween candy which remains - it should just be tossed into the garbage like most good parents have probably already done, but candy does wonders for bribery -- and i remember my love for candy as a kid so is a piece or two a day really that bad???

and you will see this...

the twins have made improvements in their understanding of thanksgiving this year and gratitude and what they are thankful for...imagine my face last year when i read the poster at preschool that said

"what are blessings?"

mia's answer: "when you need a tissue"

maddie's answer: "when you sneeze"

fortunately izzy has been a great example this year in my attempts to explain "blessings"

and you will see this...

understand my confusion now?

and i've blamed my husband for being the indecisive

 one all these years.

we are having company on saturday and i am really going to confuse the heck out of their little kids.

so really, i need to make a decision here.

is it halloween, thanksgiving or christmas in here?